Couldn’t have said it better

by Allison C on May 12, 2013

Blatantly stealing this from a friends Facebook post.

“To those who gave birth this year to their first child—we celebrate with you

To those who lost a child this year – we mourn with you
To those who are in the trenches with little ones every day and wear the badge of food stains – we appreciate you

To those who experienced loss this year through miscarriage, failed adoptions, or running away—we mourn with you

To those who walk the hard path of infertility, fraught with pokes, prods, tears, and disappointment – we walk with you. Forgive us when we say foolish things. We don’t mean to make this harder than it is.

To those who are foster moms, mentor moms, and spiritual moms – we need you

To those who have warm and close relationships with your children – we celebrate with you

To those who have disappointment, heart ache, and distance with your children – we sit with you

To those who lost their mothers this year – we grieve with you

To those who experienced abuse at the hands of your own mother – we acknowledge your experience

To those who lived through driving tests, medical tests, and the overall testing of motherhood – we are better for having you in our midst

To those who will have emptier nests in the upcoming year – we grieve and rejoice with you

And to those who are pregnant with new life, both expected and surprising –we anticipate with you

This Mother’s Day, we walk with you. Mothering is not for the faint of heart and we have real warriors in our midst. We remember you.”

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Oh Brian – Part 2

by Allison C on April 30, 2013

 

Have you read Oh Brian, part 1? If not, go read that first for the back story on Brain. Brian thinks I am someone else. Someone he is cheating on his wife with.

Brian showed back up yesterday.

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Then, from another number Brian received this text.

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At this point I decided enough was enough.

His wife has a pretty uncommon spelling for her name so, using Facebook, we searched for her name in the town we narrowed the phone number down to. There were only 4 people matching her name in that town. Since he had mentioned that he was on leave, it was easy to figure he was military. Only one of the girls was married to a “Brain” and he was in the military. Bingo. We have enough friends in that branch of the military to have the ability to take the dates he mentioned for leave and tie it to a particular command schedule. Then we just made a few inquiries with that command and verified that he was in that division.

 

Contact was made with Brian’s upper command. Message from the upper food chain regarding Brian. “I am a going to crush this guy tomorrow. This is not going to end well for him.”

Perhaps next time he will verify who he is texting when he cheats on his wife. He hopefully has also learned a valuable lesson. No matter if I know you personally or not, military wives have each others back.

Also….don’t make me angry. You won’t like me angry.

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Oh Brian…

by Allison C on April 16, 2013

A few days ago I got a random text. It was from “Brian”. Once I made sure I had no idea who “Brian” was, I thought I would have some fun with him. Maybe something like “Dude..they know!” or “Tell your mom it wasn’t me who pee’d on the car!”.

I ended up sending a “K. Talk later.” while Jimmy and I thought about what we could send if “Brian” texted again.

Last night, “Brain” showed up again. I handed the phone to my husband because he had an idea of what to say. He was going to go with “stolen goods-jail time” line. “Brain” had other ideas.

Brian, you sir, are a douchecanoe.

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Blue

April 2, 2013

Light it up blue for Autism Awareness. Yes, we participate. Our lamp-post in the yard will be lit up blue tonight….and for the rest of April. But… Personally, I think we have plenty of Autism Awareness going on nowadays, what we need is some more Autism Acceptance. My kiddo has autism. Faith isn’t going anywhere [...]

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On brussel sprouts…

March 26, 2013

I am wearing red today to support marriage equality. Don’t agree with gay marriage? Then don’t get gay married. Easy-peasy. I don’t agree with brussel sprouts. That’s my prerogative and I deal with it by not eating brussel sprouts. Legal marriage between any two consenting adults should be based upon love not gender. That is [...]

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Trotting along

March 16, 2013

Someone had a blast last night!

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Friday

March 15, 2013

Three things I am happy about today: 1. I have consistently worked out for the past two weeks. 2. I realized I’m not quite as scared of the crazy freeways around here as I used to be. And… 3. I finally found a good radio station.

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Yes, I will

March 9, 2013

I’ll take the dream I had last night, And put it in my freezer, So someday long and far away, When I’m an old grey greezer, I’ll take it out and thaw it out, This lovely dream I’ve frozen, And boil it up and sit me down And dip my old cold toes in.   [...]

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Not enough

March 7, 2013

James Reeder has been charged with 37 years. Not enough. Not even close. Becky has been charged also. RIP Koralynn. http://www.komonews.com/news/local/Judge-gives-37-year-sentence-to-reeder-in-murder-of-koralynn-fister-195704961.html

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Bread! Milk!

March 5, 2013

Since moving to the northeast, I have learned of an activity that seems to be commonplace. A storm is forecasted, people rush to the grocery store. Buy all the bread! Buy all the milk! Since this is my new hometown, and goodness knows I am trying to find my groove again, as soon as a storm was forecasted, [...]

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